The Fellowship of A.A.
If the newcomer is
satisfied that he or she is an alcoholic and that A.A. may
be able to help, then a number of specific questions about
the nature, structure, and history of the movement itself
usually come up. Here are some of the most common ones.
What is Alcoholics Anonymous?
There are two practical ways to describe
A.A. The first is the familiar description of purposes and
objectives that appears earlier:
"Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men
and women who share their experience, strength and hope with
each other that they may solve their common problem and help
others to recover from alcoholism. The only requirement for
membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues
or fees for A.A. membership; we are self-supporting through
our own contributions. A.A. is not allied with any sect,
denomination, politics, organization or institution; does
not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor
opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and
help other alcoholics achieve sobriety."
The "common problem" is alcoholism. The men
and women who consider themselves members of A.A. are, and
always will be, alcoholics, even though they may have other
addictions. They have finally recognized that they are no
longer able to handle alcohol in any form; they now stay
away from it completely. The important thing is that they do
not try to deal with the problem single-handedly. They bring
the problem out into the open with other alcoholics.
This sharing of "experience, strength and hope" seems to be
the key element that makes it possible for them to live
without alcohol and, in most cases, without even wanting to
drink.
The second way to describe Alcoholics
Anonymous is to outline the structure of the Society.
Numerically, A.A. consists of more than 2,000,000 men and
women, in 150 countries. These people meet in local groups
that range in size from a handful of ex-drinkers in some
localities to many hundreds in larger communities.
In the populous metropolitan areas, there
may be scores of neighborhood groups, each holding its own
regular meetings. Many A.A. meetings are open to the public;
some groups also hold "closed meetings," where members are
encouraged to discuss problems that might not be fully
appreciated by nonalcoholics.
The local group is the core of the A.A.
Fellowship. Its open meetings welcome alcoholics and their
families in an atmosphere of friendliness and helpfulness.
There are now more than 97,000 groups throughout the world,
including hundreds in hospitals, prisons, and other
institutions.
How did A.A. get started?
Alcoholics Anonymous had its beginnings in
Akron in 1935 when a New Yorker on business there and
successfully sober for the first time in years sought out
another alcoholic. During his few months of sobriety, the
New Yorker had noticed that his desire to drink lessened
when he tried to help other drunks to get sober. In Akron,
he was directed to a local doctor with a drinking problem.
Working together, the businessman and the doctor found that
their ability to stay sober seemed closely related to the
amount of help and encouragement they were able to give
other alcoholics.
For four years, the new movement, nameless
and without any organization or descriptive literature, grew
slowly. Groups were established in Akron, New York,
Cleveland, and a few other centers.
In 1939, with the publication of the book
Alcoholics Anonymous, from which the Fellowship derived
its name, and as the result of the help of a number of
nonalcoholic friends, the Society began to attract national
and international attention.
A service office was opened in New York City
to handle the thousands of inquiries and requests for
literature that pour in each year.
Are there any rules in A.A.?
The absence of rules, regulations, or musts
is one of the unique features of A.A. as a local group and
as a worldwide fellowship. There are no bylaws that say a
member has to attend a certain number of meetings within a
given period.
Understandably, most groups have an
unwritten tradition that anyone who is still drinking, and
boisterous enough to disturb a meeting, may be asked to
leave; the same person will be welcomed back at any time
when not likely to disrupt a meeting. Meanwhile, members of
the group will do their best to help bring sobriety to the
person if there is a sincere desire to stop drinking.
What does membership in A.A. cost?
Membership in A.A. involves no financial
obligations of any kind. The A.A. program of recovery from
alcoholism is available to anyone who has a desire to stop
drinking, whether he or she is flat broke or the possessor
of millions.
Most local groups "pass the hat" at meetings
to defray the cost of renting a meeting place and other
meeting expenses, including coffee, sandwiches, cakes, or
whatever else may be served. In a large majority of the
groups, part of the money thus collected is voluntarily
contributed to A.A.'s national and international services.
These group funds are used exclusively for services designed
to help new and established groups and to spread the word of
the A.A. recovery program to "the many alcoholics who still
don't know."
The important consideration is that
membership in A.A. is in no way contingent upon financial
support of the Fellowship. Many A.A. groups have, in fact,
placed strict limitations on the amount that can be
contributed by any member. A.A. is entirely self-supporting,
and no outside contributions are accepted.
Who runs A.A.?
A.A. has no officers or executives who wield
power or authority over the Fellowship. There is no
"government" in A.A. It is obvious, however, that even in an
informal organization, certain jobs have to be done. In the
local group, for example, someone has to arrange for a
suitable meeting place; meetings have to be scheduled and
programmed; provision has to be made for serving the coffee
and snacks that contribute so much to the informal
comradeship of A.A. gatherings; many groups also consider it
wise to assign to someone the responsibility of keeping in
touch with the national and international development of
A.A.
When a local group is first formed,
self-appointed workers may take over responsibility for
these tasks, acting informally as servants of the group. As
soon as possible, however, these responsibilities are, by
election, rotated to others in the group for limited periods
of service. A typical A.A. group may have a chairperson, a
secretary, a program committee, a food committee, a
treasurer, and a general service representative who acts for
the group at regional or area meetings. Newcomers who have a
reasonable period of sobriety behind them are urged to take
part in handling group responsibilities.
At the national and international levels,
there are also specific jobs to be done. Literature has to
be written, printed, and distributed to groups and
individuals who ask for it. Inquiries from both new and
established groups have to be answered. Individual requests
for information about A.A. and its program of recovery from
alcoholism have to be filled. Assistance and information
have to be provided for doctors, members of the clergy,
business people, and directors of institutions. Sound public
relations must be established and maintained in dealing with
press, radio, television, motion pictures, and other
communications media.
To provide for the sound growth of A.A.,
early members of the Society, together with nonalcoholic
friends, established a custodial board - now known as the
General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous. The board
serves as the custodian of A.A. Traditions and overall
service, and it assumes responsibility for the service
standards of A.A.'s General Service Office at New York.
The link between the board and the A.A.
groups of the U.S. and Canada is the A.A. General Service
Conference. The Conference, comprising about 92 delegates
from A.A. areas, the 21 trustees on the board, General
Service Office staff members, and others, meets for several
days each year. The Conference is exclusively a consultative
service agency. It has no authority to regulate or govern
the Fellowship.
Thus the answer to "Who runs A.A.?" is that
the Society is a uniquely democratic movement, with no
central government and only a minimum of formal
organization.
Is A.A. a religious society?
A.A. is not a religious society, since it
requires no definite religious belief as a condition of
membership. Although it has been endorsed and approved by
many religious leaders, it is not allied with any
organization or sect. Included in its membership are
Catholics, Protestants, Jews, members of other major
religious bodies, agnostics, and atheists.
The A.A. program of recovery from alcoholism
is undeniably based on acceptance of certain spiritual
values. The individual member is free to interpret those
values as he or she thinks best, or not to think about them
at all.
Most members, before turning to A.A., had
already admitted that they could not control their drinking.
Alcohol had become a power greater than themselves, and it
had been accepted on those terms. A.A. suggests that to
achieve and maintain sobriety, alcoholics need to accept and
depend upon another Power recognized as greater than
themselves. Some alcoholics choose to consider the A.A.
group itself as the power greater than themselves; for many
others, this Power is God — as they, individually,
understand Him; still others rely upon entirely
different concepts of a Higher Power.
Some alcoholics, when they first turn to
A.A., have definite reservations about accepting any concept
of a Power greater than themselves. Experience shows that,
if they will keep an open mind on the subject and keep
coming to A.A. meetings, they are not likely to have too
difficult a time in working out an acceptable solution to
this distinctly personal problem.
Is A.A. a temperance movement?
No. A.A. has no relation to temperance
movements. A.A. "neither endorses nor opposes any causes."
This phrase, from the widely accepted outline of the purpose
of the Society, naturally applies to the question of
so-called temperance movements. The alcoholic who has become
sober and is attempting to follow the A.A. recovery program
has an attitude toward alcohol that might be likened to the
attitude of a hay fever sufferer toward goldenrod.
While many A.A.s appreciate that alcohol may
be all right for most people, they know it to be poison for
them. The average A.A. has no desire to deprive anyone of
something that, properly handled, is a source of pleasure.
The A.A. merely acknowledges being personally unable to
handle the stuff.
Are there many women alcoholics in A.A.?
The number of women who are finding help in
A.A. for their drinking problem increases daily.
Approximately one-third of present-day members are women;
among newcomers, the proportion has been rising steadily.
Like the men in the Fellowship, they represent every
conceivable social background and pattern of drinking.
The general feeling seems to be that a woman
alcoholic faces special problems. Because society has tended
to apply different standards to the behavior of women, some
women may feel that a greater stigma is attached to their
uncontrolled use of alcohol.
A.A. makes no distinctions of this type.
Whatever her age, social standing, financial status, or
education, the woman alcoholic, like her male counterpart,
can find understanding and help in A.A. Within the local
group setup, women A.A.s play the same significant roles
that men do.
Are there many young people in A.A.?
One of the most heartening trends in the
growth of A.A. is the fact that more and more young men and
women are being attracted to the program before their
problem drinking results in complete disaster. Now that the
progressive nature of alcoholism is better appreciated,
these young people recognize that, if one is an alcoholic,
the best time to arrest the illness is in its early stages.
In the first days of the movement, it was
commonly thought that the only logical candidates for A.A.
were those men and women who had lost their jobs, had hit
skid row, had completely disrupted their family fives, or
had otherwise isolated themselves from normal social
relationships over a period of years.
Today, many of the young people turning to
A.A. are in their twenties. Some are still in their teens.
The majority of them still have jobs and families. Many have
never been jailed or committed to institutions. But they
have seen the handwriting on the wall. They recognize that
they are alcoholics, and they see no point in letting
alcoholism run its inevitable disastrous course with them.
Their need for recovery is just as
compelling as that of the older men and women who had no
opportunity to turn to A.A. in their youth. Once they are in
A.A., the young people and the oldsters are rarely conscious
of their age differentials. In A.A., both groups start a new
life from the same milestone - their last drink. |