The Recovery Program
Upon attending only a few
meetings, the newcomer is sure to hear references to such
things as "the Twelve Steps, "the Twelve Traditions, "
"slips, " "the Big Book, and other expressions
characteristic of A.A. The following Paragraphs describe
these factors and suggest why they are mentioned frequently
by A.A. speakers.
What are the 'Twelve Steps'?
The "Twelve
Steps" are the core of the A.A. program of personal recovery
from alcoholism. They are not abstract theories; they are
based on the trial-and-error experience of early members of
A.A. They describe the attitudes and activities that these
early members believe were important in helping them to
achieve sobriety. Acceptance of the "Twelve Steps" is not
mandatory in any sense.
Experience suggests, however, that members
who make an earnest effort to follow these Steps and to
apply them in daily living seem to get far more out of A.A.
than do those members who seem to regard the Steps casually.
It has been said that it is virtually impossible to follow
all the Steps literally, day in and day out. While this may
be true, in the sense that the Twelve Steps represent an
approach to living that is totally new for most alcoholics,
many A.A. members feel that the Steps are a practical
necessity if they are to maintain their sobriety.
Here is the text of the Twelve Steps, which
first appeared in Alcoholics Anonymous, the A.A. book
of experience:
1. We admitted we were powerless over
alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than
ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our
lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral
inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to
another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove
all these defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our
short-comings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed,
and became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people
wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or
others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and
when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to
improve our conscious contact with God, as we understood
Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and
the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the
result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to
alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our
affairs.
What are the 'Twelve Traditions'?
The "Twelve Traditions" of A.A. are
suggested principles to insure the survival and growth of
the thousands of groups that make up the Fellowship. They
are based on the experience of the groups themselves during
the critical early years of the movement.
The Traditions are important to both
oldtimers and newcomers as reminders of the true foundations
of A.A. as a society of men and women whose primary concern
is to maintain their own sobriety and help others to achieve
sobriety:
1. Our common welfare should come first;
personal recovery depends upon A.A. unity.
2. For our group purpose there is but one
ultimate authority — a loving God as He may express Himself
in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted
servants; they do not govern.
3. The only requirement for A.A. membership
is a desire to stop drinking.
4. Each group should be autonomous except in
matters affecting other groups or A.A. as a whole.
5. Each group has but one primary purpose —
to carry its message to the alcoholic who still suffers.
6. An A.A. group ought never endorse,
finance, or lend the A.A. name to any related facility or
outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property, and
prestige divert us from our primary purpose.
7. Every A.A. group ought to be fully
self-supporting, declining outside contributions.
8. Alcoholics Anonymous should remain
forever non-professional, but our service centers may employ
special workers.
9. A.A., as such, ought never be organized;
but we may create service boards or committees directly
responsible to those they serve.
10. Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on
outside issues; hence the A.A. name ought never be drawn
into public controversy.
11. Our public relations policy is based on
attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain
personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, and films.
12. Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of
all our traditions, ever reminding us to place principles
before personalities.
What are 'slips'?
Occasionally a man or women who has been
sober through A.A. will get drunk. In A.A. a relapse of this
type is commonly known as a "slip." It may occur during the
first few weeks or months of sobriety or after the alcoholic
has been dry a number of years.
Nearly all A.A.s who have been through this
experience say that slips can be traced to specific causes.
They deliberately forgot that they had admitted they were
alcoholics and got overconfident about their ability to
handle alcohol. Or they stayed away from A.A. meetings or
from informal association with other A.A.s. Or they let
themselves become too involved with business or social
affairs to remember the importance of being sober. Or they
let themselves become tired and were caught with their
mental and emotional defenses down.
In other words, most "slips" don't just
happen.
Does A.A. have a basic 'textbook'?
The Fellowship has four books that are
generally accepted as "textbooks." The first is
Alcoholics Anonymous, also known as "the Big Book,"
originally published in 1939, revised in 1955 and 1976. It
records the personal stories of 42 representative problem
drinkers who achieved stable sobriety for the first time
through A.A. It also records the suggested steps and
principles that early members believed were responsible for
their ability to overcome the compulsion to drink.
The second book is Twelve Steps and
Twelve Traditions, published in 1953. It is an
interpretation, by Bill W., a co-founder, of the principles
that have thus far assured the continuing survival of
individuals and groups within A.A.
A third book, Alcoholics Anonymous Comes
of Age, published in 1957, is a brief history of the
first two decades of the Fellowship.
The fourth is As Bill Sees It
(formerly titled The A.A. Way of Life, a reader by
Bill). This is a selection of Bill W.'s writings.
These books may be purchased through local
A.A. groups or ordered direct from Alcoholics Anonymous, Box
459, Grand Central Station, New York, NY 10163.
What is 'the 24-hour program'?
"The 24-hour program" is a phrase used to
describe a basic A.A. approach to the problem of staying
sober. A.A.s never swear off alcohol for life, never take
pledges committing themselves not to take a drink
"tomorrow." By the time they turned to A.A. for help, they
had discovered that, no matter how sincere they may have
been in promising themselves to abstain from alcohol "in the
future," somehow they forgot the pledge and got drunk. The
compulsion to drink proved more powerful than the best
intentions not to drink.
The A.A. member recognizes that the biggest
problem is to stay sober now! The current 24 hours is
the only period the A.A. can do anything about as far as
drinking is concerned. Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow never
comes. "But today," the A.A. says, "today, I will not take a
drink. I may be tempted to take a drink tomorrow - and
perhaps I will. But tomorrow is something to worry about
when it comes. My big problem is not to take a drink during
this 24 hours.
Along with the 24-hour program, A.A.
emphasizes the importance of three slogans that have
probably been heard many times by the newcomer before
joining A.A. These slogans are: "Easy Does It," "Live and
Let Live," and "First Things First." By making these slogans
a basic part of the attitude toward problems of daily
living, the average A.A. is usually helped substantially in
the attempt to live successfully without alcohol.
What is the A.A. Grapevine?
The Grapevine is a monthly pocket-size
magazine published for members and friends who seek further
sharing of A.A. experience. The only international journal
of the Society, the Grapevine is edited by a staff made up
entirely of A.A.s.
Single copies of the magazine are usually
available each month at meetings of local groups, but most
readers prefer to receive their copies on a regular
subscription basis. In the U.S. the cost of annual
subscription is $15.00, slightly more - in Canada; single
copies are $1.50.
Why doesn't A.A. seem to work
for some people?
The answer is that A.A. will work only for
those who admit that they are alcoholics, who honestly want
to stop drinking — and who are able to keep those facts
uppermost in their minds at all times.
A.A. usually will not work for the man or
woman who has reservations about whether or not he or she is
an alcoholic, or who clings to the hope of being able to
drink normally again.
Most medical authorities say no one who is
an alcoholic can ever drink normally again. The alcoholic
must admit and accept this cardinal fact. Coupled with this
admission and acceptance must be the desire to stop
drinking.
After they have been sober a while in A.A.,
some people tend to forget that they are alcoholics, with
all that this diagnosis implies. Their sobriety makes them
overconfident, and they decide to experiment with alcohol
again. The results of such experiments are, for the
alcoholic, completely predictable. Their drinking invariably
becomes progressively worse.
Reprinted from the A.A.
Pamphlet "44 Questions" with permission of A.A. World Services,
Inc.
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