Newcomers' Questions
A.A. has but one primary
purpose, although it may indirectly be responsible for other
benefits. The following are questions that are occasionally
asked by newcomers to the Fellowship.
Will A.A. help me financially?
Many
alcoholics, by the time they turn to A.A. for help with
their drinking problems, have also accumulated substantial
financial problems. Not unnaturally, some may cherish the
hope that A.A. may in some way be able to help them with
more pressing financial obligations.
Very early in A.A. experience as a society,
it was discovered that money or the lack of it had nothing
to do with the newcomer's ability to achieve sobriety and
work his or her way out of the many problems that had been
complicated by excessive use of alcohol.
The absence of money — even with a heavy
burden of debts — seemed to prove no hindrance to the
alcoholic who honestly and sincerely wanted to face up to
the realities of a life without alcohol. Once the big
problem of alcohol had been cleared away, the other
problems, including those related to finances, seemed to
work out, too. Some A.A.s have made sensational financial
comebacks in relatively brief periods. For others, the road
has been hard and long. The basic answer to this question is
that A.A. exists for just one purpose, and that purpose is
in no way related to material prosperity or the lack
thereof.
There is nothing to prevent any member of a
group from staking a newcomer to a meal, a suit of clothes,
or even a cash loan. That is a matter for individual
decision and discretion. It would, however, be misleading if
an alcoholic gets the impression that A.A. is any sort of
moneyed charity organization.
Will A.A. help me straighten out my family troubles?
Alcohol is frequently a complicating factor
in family life, magnifying petty irritations, exposing
character defects, and contributing to financial problems.
Many men and women, by the time they turn to A.A., have
managed to make a complete mess of their family lives.
Some newcomers to A.A., suddenly aware of
their own contributions to chaos, are eager and enthusiastic
about making amends and resuming normal patterns of living
with those closest to them. Others, with or without cause,
continue to feel bitter resentments toward their families.
Almost without exception, newcomers who are
sincere in their approach to the A.A. recovery program are
successful in mending broken family lives. The bonds that
reunite the honest alcoholic with family members are often
stronger than ever before. Sometimes, of course, irreparable
damage has been done, and a totally new approach to family
life has to be developed. But generally, the story is one
with a happy ending.
Experience suggests that the alcoholic who
comes to A.A. solely to keep peace in the family, and not
because of an honest desire to stop drinking, may have
difficulty achieving sobriety. The sincere desire for
sobriety should come first. Once sober, the alcoholic will
find that many of the other problems of daily living can be
approached realistically and with very good chance of
success.
Does A.A. operate hospitals or rest homes for
alcoholics?
There are no "A.A. rest homes or hospitals."
Traditionally, no professional services or facilities are
ever offered or performed under A.A. sponsorship. By
adhering to the tradition of avoiding services that others
are prepared to render, A.A. thus avoids any possible
misunderstanding of its primary purpose, which is to help
alcoholics searching for a way of life without alcohol.
In some areas, service committees made up of
individual A.A. members have made arrangements with local
hospitals for the admission of alcoholics who are sponsored
by A.A.s as individuals, not as representatives of the
Fellowship as a whole.
In other areas, individual A.A.s or groups
of A.A.s have established rest homes that cater primarily to
newcomers to the recovery program. Because of their special
understanding of problems confronting the alcoholic, the
owners or managers of these homes are often able to help the
newcomer during the first crucial period of sobriety. But
these homes have no connection with A.A. beyond the fact
that they may be operated by persons who achieved their own
sobriety through A.A. As a movement, A.A. is never
affiliated with business enterprises of any description.
Does A.A. sponsor any social activity for members?
Most A.A.s are sociable people, a factor
that may have been partially responsible for their becoming
alcoholics in the first place. As a consequence, meetings of
local A.A. groups tend to be lively affairs.
A.A. as a fellowship has never developed any
formal program of social activities for members, since the
sole purpose of the movement is to help alcoholics get
sober. In some areas, members, entirely on their own
individual responsibility, have opened clubrooms or other
facilities for members of the local group. These clubs are
traditionally independent of A.A., and great care is usually
taken to avoid direct identification with the movement.
Even where no club exists, it is not
uncommon for local groups to arrange anniversary dinners,
picnics, parties on New Year's Eve and other special
occasions, and similar affairs. In some large cities, A.A.s
meet regularly for lunch and sponsor informal get-togethers
over weekends.
What do medical authorities think of A.A.?
Also see pamphlet: "A.A. as a Resource for
the Health Care Professional"
From its earliest days, A.A.
has enjoyed the friendship and support of doctors who were
familiar with its program of recovery from alcoholism.
Doctors, perhaps better than any other group, are in a
position to appreciate how unreliable other approaches to
the problem of alcoholism have been in the past. A.A. has
never been advanced as the only answer to the
problem, but the A.A. recovery program has worked so often,
after other methods have failed, that doctors today are
frequently the most outspoken boosters for the program in
their communities.
Some measure of the medical profession's
atti tude toward A.A. was suggested in 1951 when the
American Public Health Association named Alcoholics
Anonymous as one of the recipients of the famed Lasker
Awards in "formal recognition of A.A.'s success in treating
alcoholism as an illness and in blotting out its social
stigma."
A.A. is still new (or unknown) in some communities, and not
all doctors are familiar with the recovery program. But here
are excerpts from comments on A.A. by leading medical
authorities:
In 1967, the American Medical
Association stated that membership in A.A. was still the
most effective means of treating alcoholism and quoted
Dr. Ruth Fox, an eminent authority on alcoholism and
then medical director of the National Council on
Alcoholism: "With its thousands of groups and its
300,000 recovered alcoholics [now upwards of 2,000,000],
A.A. has undoubtedly reached more cases than all the
rest of us together. For patients who can and will
accept it, A.A. may be the only form of therapy needed."
"I have the utmost respect for the work
A.A. is doing, for its spirit, for its essential
philosophy of mutual helpfulness. I lose no opportunity
to express my endorsement publicly and privately where
it is of any concern."
Karl Menninger, M.D.
Menninger Foundation
"Perhaps the most effective treatment in the
rehabilitation of the alcoholic is a philosophy of
living which is compatible with the individual and his
family, an absorbing faith in himself which comes only
after he has learned to understand himself, and a close
association with others whose experiences parallel his
own. The physician's cooperation with Alcoholics
Anonymous is one way of obtaining these things for his
patient."
Marvin A. Block, M.D., member of the
American Medical Association's Committee
on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence
What do religious leaders think of A.A.?
Also see pamphlet:"Members of the Clergy Ask About A.A."
Probably no lay movement of
modem times has been more richly endowed than A.A. with the
support of the clergy of all the great faiths. Like the
doctors, mankind's spiritual advisers have long been
troubled by the problem of alcoholism. Many of these
advisers have heard honest people make sincere pledges to
abstain from alcohol they could not control - only to see
them break those pledges within hours, days, or weeks.
Sympathy, understanding, and appeals to conscience have been
of little avail to the clergy in their attempts to help the
alcoholic.
Thus it is perhaps not surprising that A.A.
- although it offers a way of fife rather than a way of
formal religion - should be embraced so warmly by
representatives of many different denominations. Here is how
some of them have referred to A.A. in the past:
The Directors Bulletin, a Jesuit periodical
published at St. Louis, Mo.
"Father Dowling of The Queen's Work
staff had exceptional opportunity to observe the
Alcoholics Anonymous movement.
"He found that the keystone of the A.A.
therapy includes self-denial, humility, charity, good
example, and opportunities for a new pattern of social
recreation. All denominations are represented in the
movement. Readers can be assured that no article or book
on the movement is one-tenth as convincing as is
personal contact with an individual or group of A.A.s
whose personalities and homes and businesses have been
transformed from chaos into sound achievement."
The Living Church (Episcopal)
"Basis of the technique of Alcoholics
Anonymous is the truly Christian principle that a man
cannot help himself except by helping others. The A.A.
plan is described by the members themselves as
'self-insurance.' This self-insurance has resulted in
the restoration of physical, mental, and spiritual
health and self-respect to hundreds of men and women who
would be hopelessly down-and-out without its unique but
effective therapy. "
Who is responsible for the publicity about A.A.?
The A.A. tradition of public relations has
always been keyed to attraction rather than promotion. A.A.
never seeks publicity but always cooperates fully with
responsible representatives of press, radio, television,
motion pictures, and other media that seek information about
the recovery program.
At national and international levels, news
of A.A. is made available by the Public Information
Committee of the General Service Board. Local committees
have also been organized, to provide the media with facts
about A.A. as a resource for alcoholics in their
communities.
A.A. is deeply grateful to all its friends
who have been responsible for the recognition accorded the
movement. It is also deeply aware of the fact that the
anonymity of members, upon which the program is so
dependent, has been respected so faithfully by all media.
It should also be noted that within A.A., at
A.A. meetings and among themselves, A.A. members are not
anonymous.
Reprinted from the A.A.
Pamphlet "44 Questions" with permission of A.A. World Services,
Inc.
Copyright © 1952 by Works
Publishing, Inc. (Now known as A.A. World Services, Inc.)
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